{"id":2972,"date":"2015-07-13T23:07:10","date_gmt":"2015-07-13T23:07:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tydaikho.com\/tin-tuc\/tan-man-tinh-yeu\/con-dau-thot-loi-me-chong-tang-xong\/"},"modified":"2015-07-13T23:07:10","modified_gmt":"2015-07-13T23:07:10","slug":"con-dau-thot-loi-me-chong-tang-xong","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/2015\/07\/13\/con-dau-thot-loi-me-chong-tang-xong\/","title":{"rendered":"Con d\u00e2u th\u1ed1t l\u1eddi, m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng “t\u0103ng x\u00f4ng”"},"content":{"rendered":"
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C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u, khi n\u00e0ng d\u00e2u n\u00f3i ra s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

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– “\u1ede nh\u00e0 m\u1eb9 con kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 m\u1eb9<\/strong>“: T\u1eeb “m\u1eb9 con” s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch gi\u1eefa b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t xa h\u01a1n. M\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng<\/strong> s\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1eb7t “m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ebb” l\u00ean tr\u00ean “m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng”.<\/p>\n

– “Th\u1eddi c\u1ee7a con kh\u00e1c r\u1ed3i<\/strong>“: C\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng b\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169 k\u1ef9, c\u1ed5 h\u1ee7. D\u00f9 s\u1ef1 th\u1ef1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00fang v\u1eady, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i d\u1ec5 l\u1ecdt tai h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

– “M\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft d\u1ea1y ch\u00e1u<\/strong>“: C\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e1c g\u00ec m\u1ed9t g\u00e1o n\u01b0\u1edbc l\u1ea1nh x\u1ed1i th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0o m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi, c\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y d\u1ebf b\u1ecb cho l\u00e0 h\u1ed7n l\u00e1o. B\u1edfi, n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c “m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft d\u1ea1y con m\u1eb9”. Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con ch\u00e1u trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n g\u1ed1c c\u1ee7a r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1eefng b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng do quan \u0111i\u1ec3m gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c kh\u00e1c nhau c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Tuy v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng n\u00ean t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i “nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng” h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau m\u00e0 quan h\u1ec7 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb x\u1ea5u \u0111i.<\/p>\n

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– “M\u1ea5y m\u00f3n m\u1eb9 n\u1ea5u th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 \u0103n<\/strong>“: Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai c\u0169ng n\u1ea5u \u0103n ngon. C\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u1ea5u \u0111\u00fang kh\u1ea9u v\u1ecb \u0103n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y, c\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u1ea5y khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd m\u1ea5t \u0111i ng\u01b0\u1eddi “c\u1ed9ng s\u1ef1” trong gian b\u1ebfp. S\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng n\u00e0o mu\u1ed1n n\u1ea5u \u0103n gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n n\u1eefa sau khi nghe c\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u1ea5y.<\/p>\n

– “M\u1eb9 c\u1ee9 l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0y, ch\u00e1u n\u00f3 h\u01b0<\/strong>“: Th\u01b0\u1eddng \u00f4ng b\u00e0 y\u00eau ch\u00e1u, n\u00ean \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u00f3 nu\u00f4ng chi\u1ec1u. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean v\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch m\u1eafng m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng v\u00f4 c\u1edb. N\u1ebfu b\u00e0 c\u00f3 chi\u1ec1u con m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean c\u1ea3m \u01a1n b\u00e0 v\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u00e1i qu\u00e1 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng v\u1eeba l\u00f2ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eebng la l\u1ed1i, ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n v\u1edbi b\u00e0. Thay v\u00ec th\u1ebf b\u1ea1n n\u00ean nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng nh\u1ecf to v\u1edbi b\u00e0 r\u1eb1ng \u201ccon ngh\u0129 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3\u201d, \u201cm\u1eb9 \u01a1i, theo con th\u00ec…\u201d.<\/p>\n

– “Ch\u1ed3ng con nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fac nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f3 d\u1ea1y”: Nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fac b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bu\u1ed9t mi\u1ec7ng n\u00f3i v\u1eady v\u00e0 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 g\u00ec. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 sai. Ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n v\u0129nh vi\u1ec5n l\u00e0 con trai c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n. Cho n\u00ean b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 than phi\u1ec1n v\u1ec1 ch\u1ed3ng nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. N\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n d\u1ec5 n\u1ed5i c\u00e1u b\u1edfi ch\u1ea3 kh\u00e1c n\u00e0o b\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 “m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft d\u1ea1y con trai c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh”.<\/p>\n

– “C\u00e1i m\u00e1y n\u00e0y d\u1ec5 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng th\u1ebf m\u00e0 m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c<\/strong>“: \u0110\u00e3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn b\u00e0 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c thi\u1ebft b\u1ecb trong nh\u00e0, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea7n n\u00e0o b\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m ho\u1eb7c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng sai. V\u00e0 “qu\u00e1 tam ba b\u1eadn”, b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y “n\u00f3ng trong ng\u01b0\u1eddi” v\u00e0 th\u1ed1t l\u00ean c\u00e2u \u1ea5y. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ebb nh\u01b0 v\u1eady v\u00e0 b\u00e0 s\u1ebd b\u1ecf qua. Nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng, c\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn b\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129. V\u1edbi c\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u1ea5y, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea9y m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng ra xa m\u00ecnh h\u01a1n. B\u00e0 c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1c h\u1eadu, c\u0169 k\u1ef9, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 “kh\u00f4ng th\u00f4ng minh”. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, h\u00e3y c\u1ea9n tr\u1ecdng khi ph\u00e1t ng\u00f4n.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u, khi n\u00e0ng d\u00e2u n\u00f3i ra s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n. – “\u1ede nh\u00e0 m\u1eb9 con kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 m\u1eb9“: T\u1eeb “m\u1eb9 con” s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch gi\u1eefa b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t xa h\u01a1n. M\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2973,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[412],"tags":[511,512,439,486],"class_list":["post-2972","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-tinh-yeu-hon-nhan","tag-mau-thuan","tag-nang-dau","tag-tydaikho","tag-tydaikho-tam"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2972","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2972"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2972\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2973"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2972"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2972"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2972"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}