{"id":2997,"date":"2015-07-13T23:09:16","date_gmt":"2015-07-13T23:09:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tydaikho.com\/tin-tuc\/tan-man-tinh-yeu\/nhung-lam-tuong-cua-dan-ong-ve-cho-chui-gam-chan\/"},"modified":"2015-07-13T23:09:16","modified_gmt":"2015-07-13T23:09:16","slug":"nhung-lam-tuong-cua-dan-ong-ve-cho-chui-gam-chan","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/2015\/07\/13\/nhung-lam-tuong-cua-dan-ong-ve-cho-chui-gam-chan\/","title":{"rendered":"Nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7m t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u1ec1 “ch\u00f3 chui g\u1ea7m ch\u1ea1n”"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Nh\u1eefng \u00f4ng ch\u1ed3ng \u1edf r\u1ec3 th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 l\u00e0 k\u00e9m c\u1ecfi, h\u00e3m t\u00e0i, “\u0103n b\u00e1m nh\u00e0 v\u1ee3\u201d v\u00e0 b\u1ecb v\u00ed l\u00e0 \u201cch\u00f3 chui g\u1ea7m ch\u1ea1n\u201d.<\/p>\n

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T\u1eeb x\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn nay, vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng, v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng l\u00e0m d\u00e2u l\u00e0 l\u1ebd th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng con r\u1ec3 m\u00e0 \u1edf nh\u00e0 v\u1ee3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng. Kh\u00f4ng \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p d\u1ecb ngh\u1ecb, coi th\u01b0\u1eddng khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m, t\u1ee7i h\u1ed5.<\/p>\n

X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e3 c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u1edbi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y. Vi\u1ec7c <\/p>\n

\u1edf r\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1 th\u1ea5p b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 \u201cch\u1ecbu nh\u1ee5c\u201d nh\u01b0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eabn ngh\u0129. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh m\u1eb7c nhi\u00ean coi vi\u1ec7c \u1edf r\u1ec3 l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 chuy\u1ec7n l\u00e0m d\u00e2u v\u00e0 thay \u0111\u1ed5i suy ngh\u0129 \u1edf r\u1ec3 l\u00e0 \u201cch\u00f3 chui g\u1ea7m ch\u1ea1n\u201d.<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, v\u1eabn c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng \u00edt l\u1ea7m t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i trong suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh c\u00e1c \u00f4ng ch\u1ed3ng.<\/p>\n

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\u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u1edf r\u1ec3 l\u00e0 h\u00e8n, nh\u1ee5c<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 quan ni\u1ec7m \u1ea5u tr\u0129 c\u1ee7a r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi. X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y th\u1eed \u0111\u1eb7t ra c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 theo ch\u1ed3ng v\u1ec1 l\u00e0m d\u00e2u, ph\u1ee5ng d\u01b0\u1ee1ng b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng, th\u1ebf th\u00ec t\u1ea1i sao \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn \u1edf r\u1ec3, ch\u0103m s\u00f3c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u1ee3?<\/p>\n

Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf cho th\u1ea5y, vi\u1ec7c \u1edf r\u1ec3 kh\u00e1c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u so v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m d\u00e2u. C\u00e1c ch\u00e0ng r\u1ec3 th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1ee3 ch\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3n v\u00e0 \u00edt kh\u1eaft khe, \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd h\u01a1n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, s\u1ee9c ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng c\u1ee7a con r\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i k\u00e9m h\u01a1n h\u1eb3n so v\u1edbi con d\u00e2u khi va ch\u1ea1m v\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1ee3.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng hay c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ef1 ti, c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh h\u00e8n khi ph\u1ea3i v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 v\u1ee3 \u1edf. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 ki\u00ean quy\u1ebft \u0111i thu\u00ea nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng th\u00e1ng thay v\u00ec \u1edf nh\u00e0 v\u1ee3 ti\u1ec7n nghi, khang trang.<\/p>\n

V\u00ec v\u1eady, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng ph\u1ea3i v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ebfn \u201cd\u00e2u con, r\u1ec3 kh\u00e1ch”, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u1ee3, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ee3 con, th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn con r\u1ec3 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u1ee3 y\u00eau qu\u00fd nh\u01b0 con \u0111\u1ebb.<\/p>\n

Ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u1edf r\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn “c\u01a1m kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0nh, canh kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ecdt\u201d l\u00e0 do kh\u00f4ng dung h\u00f2a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c phong c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng c\u00f9ng l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng, t\u00ednh s\u0129 di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ch\u00e0ng r\u1ec3.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ec3 kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1ee3 ph\u1ea3i th\u1eadt kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o trong l\u1eddi n\u00f3i, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh g\u00e2y t\u1ef1 \u00e1i v\u00e0 m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m, t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng.<\/p>\n

\"Nh\u1eefng<\/span><\/p>\n

\u1ede r\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i do y\u1ebfu th\u1ebf<\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i phong ki\u1ebfn, vi\u1ec7c \u1edf r\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 x\u1ea3y ra trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f3 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh ngh\u00e8o kh\u00f3 trong khi nh\u00e0 v\u1ee3 gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 ho\u1eb7c gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb k\u00e9m so v\u1edbi nh\u00e0 v\u1ee3. L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi con r\u1ec3 b\u1ecb coi th\u01b0\u1eddng, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, khi\u1ebfn anh ta lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 ti v\u00e0 m\u1ea5t m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n v\u00e0 b\u1ecb ch\u00e2m ch\u1ecdc b\u1eb1ng c\u00e2u th\u00e0nh ng\u1eef quen thu\u1ed9c: \u201cch\u00f3 chui g\u1ea7m ch\u1ea1n\u201d.<\/p>\n

Ng\u00e0y nay, quan ni\u1ec7m n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. S\u1ed1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u1edf r\u1ec3 ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u, trong \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 h\u1ecdc th\u1ee9c, \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb cao, gia \u0111\u00ecnh gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn t\u00ecnh nguy\u1ec7n \u1edf r\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00edch nghi v\u1edbi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1ee3 (v\u1ee3 l\u00e0 con m\u1ed9t, nh\u00e0 v\u1ee3 neo ng\u01b0\u1eddi, b\u1ed1 v\u1ee3 m\u1ea5t s\u1edbm, s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u1ee3 k\u00e9m, thu\u1eadn ti\u1ec7n \u0111i l\u00e0m \u2026).<\/p>\n

V\u00e0 d\u00f9 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do n\u00e0o, vi\u1ec7c \u1edf r\u1ec3 c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eb1m m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch gi\u00fap cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu h\u01a1n. M\u1ed9t \u00f4ng ch\u1ed3ng coi m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 kh\u00e1ch, l\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebfng, t\u1ef1 t\u00e1ch m\u00ecnh kh\u1ecfi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng chung s\u1ebd kh\u00f3 g\u1eafn b\u00f3 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i d\u00f9 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u, v\u1edbi ai.<\/p>\n

M\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m \u201c\u0103n nh\u1edd, \u1edf \u0111\u1eadu\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ch\u00e0ng r\u1ec3 m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m, x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 khi m\u00ecnh \u201c\u0103n nh\u1edd, \u1edf \u0111\u1eadu\u201d gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1ee3 n\u00ean gi\u1ea5u kh\u00f4ng cho b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n bi\u1ebft. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 sai l\u1ea7m. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi con r\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 coi m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 kh\u00e1ch, d\u1eedng d\u01b0ng v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi \u201cc\u00f4ng to vi\u1ec7c l\u1edbn\u201d nh\u00e0 v\u1ee3 th\u00ec \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c t\u1ef1 t\u00e1ch m\u00ecnh kh\u1ecfi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng chung, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 g\u1eafn b\u00f3 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i c\u00f9ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1ee3.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n \u1edf r\u1ec3 nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ee3 con, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9, anh ch\u1ecb em v\u1ee3, h\u00f2a \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1ee3 th\u00ec nh\u00e0 v\u1ee3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u00e8m pha, ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n. Ngay c\u1ea3 khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111ang vay m\u01b0\u1ee3n, nh\u1edd v\u1ea3 ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c nh\u00e0 v\u1ee3 th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean t\u1ef1 ti b\u1edfi gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1ee3 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1. Thay v\u00ec t\u1ef1 k\u1ef7, suy ngh\u0129 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e2u, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi con r\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft c\u01b0 x\u1eed, c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh ngh\u0129a.<\/p>\n

\u1ede r\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 thua thi\u1ec7t<\/strong><\/p>\n

C\u00e1c ch\u00e0ng r\u1ec3 th\u1eddi nay \u0111i \u1edf r\u1ec3 ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n, kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi tr\u01b0\u1edbc kia l\u00e0 do ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c. H\u1ecd ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7 v\u1ec1 kinh t\u1ebf, \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p, tham gia \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh v\u00e0 c\u00f3 ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3, c\u00e1c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u1ee3 ng\u00e0y nay kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ed5 h\u1ee7 nh\u01b0 ng\u00e0y tr\u01b0\u1edbc, h\u1ecd t\u1ea1o c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i cho con r\u1ec3 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1ee3, kh\u00f4ng coi th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft \u01a1n v\u00e0 tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng con r\u1ec3 c\u00f3 hi\u1ebfu ngh\u0129a, bi\u1ebft hy sinh cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1ee3.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Nh\u1eefng \u00f4ng ch\u1ed3ng \u1edf r\u1ec3 th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 l\u00e0 k\u00e9m c\u1ecfi, h\u00e3m t\u00e0i, “\u0103n b\u00e1m nh\u00e0 v\u1ee3\u201d v\u00e0 b\u1ecb v\u00ed l\u00e0 \u201cch\u00f3 chui g\u1ea7m ch\u1ea1n\u201d. T\u1eeb x\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn nay, vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng, v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng l\u00e0m d\u00e2u l\u00e0 l\u1ebd th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng con r\u1ec3 m\u00e0 \u1edf nh\u00e0 v\u1ee3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng. Kh\u00f4ng …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2999,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[412],"tags":[532,533,534,535,487],"class_list":["post-2997","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-tinh-yeu-hon-nhan","tag-dan-ong-chong-o-re","tag-lam-tuong-ve-dan-ong","tag-mua-sam-gia-ca","tag-ong-chong-o-re","tag-tydaikho-vn"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2997","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2997"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2997\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2999"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2997"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2997"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2997"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}