{"id":5404,"date":"2015-07-18T18:29:44","date_gmt":"2015-07-18T18:29:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tydaikho.com\/tin-tuc\/tinh-yeu-hon-nhan\/nhung-quan-niem-tinh-yeu-sai-lam-nhung-lai-rat-pho-bien-trong-gioi-tre\/"},"modified":"2015-07-18T18:29:44","modified_gmt":"2015-07-18T18:29:44","slug":"nhung-quan-niem-tinh-yeu-sai-lam-nhung-lai-rat-pho-bien-trong-gioi-tre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/2015\/07\/18\/nhung-quan-niem-tinh-yeu-sai-lam-nhung-lai-rat-pho-bien-trong-gioi-tre\/","title":{"rendered":"Nh\u1eefng quan ni\u1ec7m t\u00ecnh y\u00eau sai l\u1ea7m nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn trong gi\u1edbi tr\u1ebb"},"content":{"rendered":"
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T\u00f2 m\u00f2 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 gi\u1edbi tr\u1ebb. V\u00ec v\u1eady, khi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh ch\u00fang s\u1ebd \u00e0o \u1ea1t t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n

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V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh cho thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. B\u1edfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn th\u00ec th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng c\u1ea5m \u0111o\u00e1n, trong khi thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean th\u00ec ch\u1ec9 lu\u00f4n mu\u1ed1n t\u1ef1 do.<\/p>\n

Tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng theo b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng, theo nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 h\u1ecd tin l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i theo l\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c khuy\u00ean l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang. Nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec thi\u1ebfu tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m n\u00ean gi\u1edbi tr\u1ebb h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ni\u1ec1m tin, quan \u0111i\u1ec3m l\u1ec7ch l\u1ea1c k\u00e9o theo h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng sai l\u1ea7m, bu\u00f4ng th\u1ea3, kh\u00f4ng t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, d\u1ec5 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c, \u0111i\u00ean cu\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 sai l\u1ea7m kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau s\u1ebd g\u00e2y ra h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 x\u1ea5u cho ch\u00ednh ch\u1ee7 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5n ch\u1ec9nh.<\/p>\n

T\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau<\/strong><\/p>\n

Quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. Sai l\u1ea7m n\u00e0y c\u00f3 \u1edf c\u1ea3 nam l\u1eabn n\u1eef, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1edbi tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng \u201chi\u1ebfn d\u00e2ng\u201d s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

\u201cPh\u1ee5c t\u00f9ng\u201d ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n<\/strong><\/p>\n

B\u1ecb \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c, thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c, \u0111e d\u1ecda quan h\u1ec7 d\u00f9 d\u01b0\u1edbi h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c n\u00e0o c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n. T\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n ch\u1ec9 x\u1ea3y ra khi c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n

\"Nh\u1eefng<\/span><\/p>\n

Nam gi\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng<\/strong><\/p>\n

Th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, c\u1ea3 2 gi\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng khao kh\u00e1t t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf n\u00f3. \u0110\u00f4i l\u00fac, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i nh\u01b0ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebf n\u00f3. H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa n\u1ed7i b\u1ee9c x\u00fac m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u00ednh t\u1edbi h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 ch\u1ec9 ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf b\u1ea3n l\u0129nh k\u00e9m v\u00e0 v\u00f4 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e3 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i l\u1ea7n sau<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec b\u1eaft \u00e9p ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 \u201cl\u1ee1 d\u1ea1i\u201d m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c bu\u00f4ng th\u1ea3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng coi tr\u1ecdng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. T\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n, gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau nhau th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c.<\/p>\n

N\u1eef \u0103n m\u1eb7c g\u1ee3i c\u1ea3m l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 quy\u1ebfn r\u0169 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0103n m\u1eb7c theo c\u00e1ch h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n, \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt \u01b0u \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. N\u00f3i th\u1ef1c l\u00f2ng, h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m d\u00e1ng v\u00e0 t\u1ecf ra n\u00f4i b\u1eadt tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi con g\u00e1i kh\u00e1c c\u00f2n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng.<\/p>\n

Anh kh\u00f4ng chung th\u1ee7y l\u00e0 v\u00ec em \u201ck\u00e9m\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Nh\u1eefng<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00ed d\u1ea7u t\u00ecnh b\u1eadu mu\u1ed1n th\u00f4i, b\u1eadu gieo ti\u1ebfng \u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i b\u1eadu ra. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c soi \u0111\u00e8n cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 th\u00edch h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n, tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, kh\u00f4ng chung th\u1ee7y \u1ea5y s\u1ebd d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh sau n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0m th\u1ebf<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u1ea2nh h\u01b0\u1edfng xung quanh v\u1edbi thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn. Khi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau, khoe khoang \u201cchi\u1ebfn t\u00edch\u201d c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m theo \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb \u201cl\u1ea1c qu\u1ebb\u201d. M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u1ea3n l\u0129nh kh\u00e1c nhau, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ra gi\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u01b0a ch\u1eafc m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

Ghen tu\u00f4ng l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ghen tu\u00f4ng l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t, chi\u1ebfm h\u1eefu. Khi y\u00eau, ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f4i ch\u00fat t\u00ednh chi\u1ebfm h\u1eefu v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau. Nh\u01b0ng khi kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau, h\u1ecd v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ghen tu\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec t\u00ednh \u00edch k\u1ef7 c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 \u201cc\u00f3 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng\u201d, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y th\u00edch th\u00fa<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 quan ni\u1ec7m sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng s\u00e1ch truy\u1ec7n r\u1ebb ti\u1ec1n gieo r\u1eafc v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea7u gi\u1edbi tr\u1ebb. Ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng sinh h\u1ecdc, c\u00f3 l\u00fac n\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o t\u00e2m l\u00fd, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c ph\u1ea3i ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n l\u0129nh th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n? \u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 b\u00e0n b\u1ea1c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng tr\u00ean tinh th\u1ea7n t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng c\u00e1c gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ee3i v\u1ec1 v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t, ph\u1ea3i \u201cb\u00e1o \u0111\u00e1p\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sai l\u1ea7m ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn n\u00e0y c\u00f3 \u1edf c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1eadn. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00e2n \u0111o b\u1eb1ng ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c, khi y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng ai n\u1ee3 n\u1ea7n ai gay c\u1ea3 khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n tr\u1ea3 ti\u1ec1n v\u00ec b\u1ea1n. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean tr\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u00f3 k\u1ebb sinh l\u00f2ng l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng, khi \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed5i ch\u00e1c, ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

T\u00f2 m\u00f2 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 gi\u1edbi tr\u1ebb. V\u00ec v\u1eady, khi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh ch\u00fang s\u1ebd \u00e0o \u1ea1t t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c l\u00e0nh …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5406,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[412],"tags":[414,415,416,420,421,8,422,423,426,427,428,429,430,431,432,433,434,435,436,67,437,438,439],"class_list":["post-5404","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-tinh-yeu-hon-nhan","tag-bao-gia-dinh","tag-bao-phu-nu","tag-bao-tam-su","tag-chuyen-tinh-yeu","tag-doc-truyen","tag-gia-dinh","tag-goc-tam-su","tag-hanh-phuc-gia-dinh","tag-phu-nu","tag-tam-su","tag-tam-su-ban-doc","tag-tam-su-buon","tag-tam-su-cuoc-song","tag-tam-su-gia-dinh","tag-tam-su-phu-nu","tag-tam-su-tham-kin","tag-tam-su-tinh-yeu","tag-tinh-yeu","tag-tinh-yeu-gioi-tinh","tag-truyen","tag-truyen-ngan","tag-truyen-tinh-yeu","tag-tydaikho"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5404","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5404"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5404\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5406"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5404"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5404"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5404"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}