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B\u00e1o Huffington Post (M\u1ef9) \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n anh Justin Ricklefs, ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 12 n\u0103m h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc anh h\u1ecdc anh c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

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Justin Ricklefsv\u00e0 v\u1ee3 c\u01b0\u1edbi nhau \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i 20 v\u00e0 tr\u1ea3i qua ch\u1eb7ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0 h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00e1c: C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con, chuy\u1ec3n t\u1eeb c\u0103n nh\u00e0 n\u00e0y sang c\u0103n nh\u00e0 kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u1ed5i t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m n\u00e0y sang vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m kh\u00e1c, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u0111\u1ed5i ch\u1ed7 \u1edf t\u1eeb TP n\u00e0y sang TP kh\u00e1c\u2026<\/p>\n<\/p>\n

12 n\u0103m h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, anh h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch th\u1ecfa hi\u1ec7p v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 th\u1ecfa hi\u1ec7p v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Anh nh\u1eadn ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng v\u00ec n\u00f3.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n

1. Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea7u khi n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00ed nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea1ng tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i, m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 h\u01a1n thua. B\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e2n chia \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ec1u, n\u1ebfu em l\u00e0m c\u00e1i n\u00e0y, anh ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m c\u00e1i n\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd c\u00f3 l\u00fac m\u1ed9t trong hai s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh, v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i thay v\u00ec \u1ea5m \u1ee9c v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00ec n\u00ean chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb s\u1eb5n t\u00e2m th\u1ebf cho\u00e0ng g\u00e1nh khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi \u0111au \u1ed1m, c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, hay tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m. \u0110\u1eebng xem h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 phi\u1ebfu ghi \u0111i\u1ec3m, v\u00ec nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n thua.<\/p>\n

2. Gi\u1eef g\u00ecn s\u1ef1 l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n v\u00e0 t\u00e1o b\u1ea1o nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7u y\u00eau nhau: Ch\u00e0ng say s\u01b0a theo \u0111u\u1ed5i n\u00e0ng, du l\u1ecbch \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00e0i b\u1eb1ng m\u00f4 t\u00f4, ch\u00e0ng ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 n\u00e0ng b\u1eefa t\u1ed1i ngo\u00e0i tr\u1eddi d\u01b0\u1edbi \u00e1nh n\u1ebfn\u2026 Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn n\u0103m th\u00e1ng v\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m ch\u1ea5t ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u00e3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1ebft \u0111i s\u1ef1 l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n trong anh d\u00e0nh cho v\u1ee3, nh\u01b0ng r\u1ed3i anh k\u1ecbp nh\u1eadn ra.<\/p>\n

L\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 g\u00ec qu\u00e1 cao xa, \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 bu\u1ed5i t\u1ed1i h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 \u0111\u1ed9t xu\u1ea5t, ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t m\u1ea9u nh\u1eafn vi\u1ebft tay.<\/p>\n

3. Kh\u00f4ng xao l\u00e3ng vi\u1ec7c h\u00f4n nhauNg\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng cho bi\u1ebft, d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ecfi th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n nh\u01b0ng anh lu\u00f4n \u00fd th\u1ee9c h\u00f4n v\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean m\u1ed7i khi t\u1eeb ch\u1ed7 l\u00e0m v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, sau \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi t\u1edbi n\u0103m \u0111\u1ee9a con.<\/p>\n

Theo anh, vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1ecf nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn. V\u00ec mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ed1 v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i th\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean anh ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng t\u1ed1t. B\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng, anh v\u00e0 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u1edf c\u00f9ng nh\u00e0 c\u00f9ng nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con, v\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf ch\u1eb3ng ai trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n

4. Chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb t\u00e2m th\u1ebf c\u00f9ng nhau v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua c\u00e1c bi\u1ebfn c\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi.Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i v\u00e0 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd c\u00f3 l\u00fac d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 ch\u1eb3ng t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y t\u00ecnh y\u00eau t\u1eeb nhau khi tr\u1ea3i qua c\u00e1c bi\u1ebfn c\u1ed1 nh\u01b0 m\u1ea5t con, c\u00fa s\u1ed1c t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh. R\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 hai b\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua giai \u0111o\u1ea1n nguy hi\u1ec3m n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

5. C\u1ed1 g\u1eafng kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3ng kh\u1eafc \u0111\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. Danh v\u1ecdng, ti\u1ec1n t\u00e0i r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn anh \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u00ec m\u1ea3i mi\u1ebft theo \u0111u\u1ed5i hai m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau tr\u00ean, nh\u01b0ng may m\u1eafn anh \u0111\u00e3 s\u1edbm nh\u1eadn ra v\u00e0 c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

6. Lu\u00f4n ch\u00fa \u00fd g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac. L\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u1ec1 s\u1edbm, nh\u1edd ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00f4ng con \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 v\u1edbi v\u1ee3, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u0111i du l\u1ecbch ri\u00eang v\u1edbi v\u1ee3 d\u0129 nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t cho h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. Tuy nhi\u00ean theo ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng, tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i \u1edf g\u1ea7n nhau n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 mang t\u00ednh t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00e0 ch\u01b0a ch\u1eafc mang l\u1ea1i hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 t\u1ed1t cho h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n n\u1ebfu c\u1ea3 hai ti\u00eau t\u1ed1n th\u1eddi gian \u1edf b\u00ean nhau cho c\u00e1c thi\u1ebft b\u1ecb c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 thay v\u00ec nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o m\u1eaft nhau, nghe ti\u1ebfng l\u00f2ng c\u1ee7a nhau.<\/p>\n

7. Kh\u00f4ng so s\u00e1nh h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Trong th\u1eddi bu\u1ed5i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1edd c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 l\u00e0m h\u00e0o nho\u00e1ng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00ec b\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c thua k\u00e9m n\u1ebfu so s\u00e1nh.<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 l\u00fac anh so s\u00e1nh ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c, nh\u00e0 c\u1eeda, h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh con c\u00e1i, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng anh v\u1edbi v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, v\u00e0 c\u00e1i anh nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c thua k\u00e9m v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. Anh nh\u1eadn ra \u0111\u1eebng n\u00ean ch\u01a1i tr\u00f2 n\u00e0y v\u00ec lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01a1n m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

8. N\u00ean nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng t\u1eeb b\u1ecf lu\u00f4n d\u1ec5 h\u01a1n g\u00ecn gi\u1eef. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn anh v\u00e0 v\u1ee3 lu\u00f4n \u00fd th\u1ee9c r\u1ee7i ro ly h\u00f4n lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra, v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 g\u00ecn gi\u1eef h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. M\u1ed9t b\u00ed m\u1eadt nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh n\u1ea3n l\u00f2ng khi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n g\u1eb7p tr\u1ee5c tr\u1eb7c l\u00e0 lu\u00f4n nh\u1edb v\u1ec1 ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7u y\u00eau nhau, t\u1ea1i sao m\u00ecnh y\u00eau nhau.<\/p>\n

9. Kh\u00f4ng n\u1ec1 h\u00e0 v\u00ec l\u1ee3i \u00edch c\u1ee7a nhau, kh\u00f4ng n\u1ec1 h\u00e0 ai l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho ai l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1eadn.<\/p>\n

10. Kh\u00f4ng s\u1ed1ng bi\u1ec7t l\u1eadp. H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. N\u1ebfu v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng bi\u1ec7t l\u1eadp, khi c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 x\u1ea3y ra, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n g\u1ea7n g\u0169i, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 v\u00e0 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch t\u1eeb h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

11. Lu\u00f4n nh\u1edb c\u00e2u \u201cAnh\/em s\u1ebd tha th\u1ee9 cho em\/anh ch\u1ee9?\u201d. Trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 l\u00fac b\u1ea1n m\u1eafc sai l\u1ea7m, thay v\u00ec \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, c\u00e2u n\u00f3i tr\u00ean c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng h\u00e0n g\u1eafn r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u1eefng v\u00e0ng h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

12. \u0110i\u1ec1u cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n ghi nh\u1edb l\u00e0 lu\u00f4n g\u00ecn gi\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a nhau. Danh s\u00e1ch nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n n\u00e0y d\u00f9 c\u00f3 d\u00e0i th\u1ebf n\u00e0o c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u1eef h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1eefng b\u1ec1n n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 thi\u1ebfu t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. N\u00ean nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau chi ph\u1ed1i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3, n\u00f3 lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf nghi ng\u1edd, \u0111\u00e1nh tan s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i, v\u00e0 chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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