{"id":9672,"date":"2015-07-27T03:56:25","date_gmt":"2015-07-27T03:56:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tydaikho.com\/tin-tuc\/tinh-yeu\/tinh-yeu-hon-nhan\/9-nguyen-tac-can-nho-khi-cai-nhau\/"},"modified":"2015-07-27T03:56:25","modified_gmt":"2015-07-27T03:56:25","slug":"9-nguyen-tac-can-nho-khi-cai-nhau","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/2015\/07\/27\/9-nguyen-tac-can-nho-khi-cai-nhau\/","title":{"rendered":"9 nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u1ea7n nh\u1edb khi c\u00e3i nhau"},"content":{"rendered":"
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N\u1ebfu b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i tranh c\u00e3i, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y nh\u1edb nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

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Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea9y v\u00e0o tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng tranh c\u00e3i, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c gay g\u1eaft. Nh\u01b0ng v\u00e0o th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y nh\u1edb nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng \u0111i qu\u00e1 xa v\u00e0 sau n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi l\u1ebd, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

1. D\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh l\u1ea1i<\/strong><\/p>\n

Trong l\u00fac c\u00e3i nhau, 1 trong 2 ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac r\u1ea5t m\u1ea1nh. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 l\u00fac 2 b\u1ea1n n\u00ean d\u1eebng th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn. T\u1ed1t h\u01a1n h\u1ebft, h\u00e3y gi\u1eef im l\u1eb7ng m\u1ed9t l\u00fac, ch\u1edd khi c\u1ea3 hai b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh l\u1ea1i r\u1ed3i m\u1edbi ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ee3i qu\u00e1 l\u00e2u b\u1edfi vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7n gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft s\u1edbm v\u1eabn t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e2u.<\/p>\n

\"9<\/span><\/p>\n

Khi c\u00e3i nhau, h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n c\u1ea3 hai b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng (\u1ea3nh minh h\u1ecda)<\/p>\n

2. Ngh\u0129 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi n\u00f3i<\/strong><\/p>\n

Trong l\u00fac t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn \u0111\u1eebng n\u00ean n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn sau n\u00e0y. Khi \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 nhau th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd vui. Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi l\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng hay l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 ph\u00e1 h\u1ee7y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. H\u00e3y c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn trong vi\u1ec7c s\u1eed d\u00f9ng t\u1eeb ng\u1eef.<\/p>\n

3. C\u1ea3m x\u00fac kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3n \u1ea3nh hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c<\/strong><\/p>\n

Trong l\u00fac c\u00e3i nhau, ai c\u0169ng ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00fang. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ee9 la h\u00e9t \u1ea7m \u0129, n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ph\u0169 ph\u00e0ng th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn b\u1ea1n sai, cho d\u00f9 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c c\u00e3i nhau \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac th\u01b0\u1eddng hay g\u1eb7p r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n

4. N\u00eau quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u00fang v\u1ec1 v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n vui h\u01a1n. T\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n cho \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. H\u00e3y n\u00f3i b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ebf n\u00e0o khi h\u1ecd l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i v\u00ec h\u1ecd l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00ean b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

5. \u0110\u1eebng b\u1ecf m\u1eb7c<\/strong><\/p>\n

R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi k\u1ebft th\u00fac m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c c\u00e3i nhau b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c im l\u1eb7ng v\u00e0 b\u1ecf \u0111i. L\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf s\u1ebd tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c to ti\u1ebfng nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. H\u00e3y ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn, b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

6. \u0110\u1eebng b\u1ecf qua c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c, v\u1eady b\u1ea1n n\u00ean t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 h\u1ed3i \u0111\u00e1p m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch d\u1ecbu d\u00e0ng.<\/p>\n

7. H\u00e3y nh\u1eadn l\u1ed7i<\/strong><\/p>\n

Chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi sai? S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t vi\u00ean thu\u1ed1c \u0111\u1eafng kh\u00f3 nu\u1ed1t, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch r\u0169 b\u1ecf tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u00e2y ra v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, h\u00e3y c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3. Thay v\u00ec tr\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh hay ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y can \u0111\u1ea3m xin l\u1ed7i ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng minh r\u1eb1ng, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1.<\/p>\n

8. \u0110\u1eebng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea7n gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng r\u1ea5t th\u00edch s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t trong vi\u1ec7c kinh doanh hay l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 ch\u01b0a ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ed1t trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau.<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ea7n gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft. Khi 2 b\u1ea1n c\u00e3i nhau \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean b\u1ea1n n\u00ean l\u00e0m l\u00e0 l\u1eafng nghe. Nhi\u1ec1u khi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u00e3i nhau v\u1edbi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p, m\u00e0 h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

9. H\u00e3y ch\u1ecdn t\u00ecnh y\u00eau<\/strong><\/p>\n

Trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, vi\u1ec7c th\u1eafng thua kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eadt l\u00f2ng c\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u1ea1n n\u00ean nh\u01b0\u1eddng cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eafng. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu c\u1ea3 2 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 y\u00eau nhau, th\u00ec m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng nh\u1ea5t. \u0110\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, c\u1ea3 2 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 l\u00fd tr\u00ed v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

N\u1ebfu b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i tranh c\u00e3i, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y nh\u1edb nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc n\u00e0y. Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea9y v\u00e0o tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng tranh c\u00e3i, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c gay g\u1eaft. Nh\u01b0ng v\u00e0o th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y nh\u1edb nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng \u0111i qu\u00e1 …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":9674,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[412],"tags":[414,415,416,818,819,420,421,8,422,423,765,426,427,428,429,430,431,432,433,434,435,436,820,67,437,438,439,490],"class_list":["post-9672","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-tinh-yeu-hon-nhan","tag-bao-gia-dinh","tag-bao-phu-nu","tag-bao-tam-su","tag-binh-tinh","tag-caai-nhau","tag-chuyen-tinh-yeu","tag-doc-truyen","tag-gia-dinh","tag-goc-tam-su","tag-hanh-phuc-gia-dinh","tag-moi-quan-he","tag-phu-nu","tag-tam-su","tag-tam-su-ban-doc","tag-tam-su-buon","tag-tam-su-cuoc-song","tag-tam-su-gia-dinh","tag-tam-su-phu-nu","tag-tam-su-tham-kin","tag-tam-su-tinh-yeu","tag-tinh-yeu","tag-tinh-yeu-gioi-tinh","tag-tranh-cai","tag-truyen","tag-truyen-ngan","tag-truyen-tinh-yeu","tag-tydaikho","tag-vo-chong"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9672","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9672"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9672\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9674"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9672"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9672"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/demo.vnno1.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9672"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}